What kind of question will you ask yourself, when trying to improve your life?

Updated on July 5, 2019 in General Discussion
43 on July 3, 2019

Everyone has the resolution to improve them self, If you are thinking to improve yourself, what question will you ask yourself. In my opinion here I suggest two questions.

  • Why do I do something I don’t like?
  • What are you most grateful for?

Share your questions here.

 
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2 on July 3, 2019

Basically, I’m asking these Questions to improve my self. 

01) What are my weakness and Strengths? 
02) Where am I standing?
03) What is my capacity?

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on July 4, 2019

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In my question, I got some benefits, success in myself. Can you please share your success in your question.

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on July 4, 2019

Many things I accomplished in personal life. But the mega investment was my bike. For some incidents, I decided to buy a bike. So I fixed it on my mind and worked accordingly to buy that. So that time, I asked the above question to me, what are the weakness & strengths that I have? Is that I have the capacity to buy a bike on that cost. So finally I find out the ways and then bought it.  Now, I’m focusing on a huge investment and I have moved the first step. I hope it also will give success. This is my one of the success story 😉

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10 on July 3, 2019

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When I planning to do something new, that time my inner mind creates the following three questions 🙁

Why do I want to try this?
Can I do this, and can I do?
What will others think about it? 

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on July 3, 2019

What will others think about it?

If you are thinking about others, that is worthless. Do what you love! because others won’t come or solve your problems. This is your life and you are a decision maker. Think twice or thrice time before you act or move. Your decisions will make you very happy. If you fail in the first time that is a major and first lesson how to do that again without fail. This is my thought and don’t take this because I’m also coming on others category 😉

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on July 3, 2019

Yes , Thank you for your lovely advice. The Last previous month I’m totally struggling with a question but now I’m overcoming from this kind of questions. And your points also increased my confident level.

This is my thought and don’t take this because I’m also coming on others categoryFrom Dilan

I’ve really fallen into that your last line 🤣

 

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on July 3, 2019
What will others think about it?

If you are thinking about others, that is worthless. Do what you love! because others won’t come or solve your problems. This is your life and you are a decision maker. Think twice or thrice time before you act or move. Your decisions will make you very happy. If you fail in the first time that is a major and first lesson how to do that again without fail. This is my thought and don’t take this because I’m also coming on others category 😉From Dilan

Exactly! your point is acceptable Dilan. This is your life Dayanthini. Don’t care about what others think. They didn’t go to live your life. This is your life.make your own decision what is good for you. If you fail or win whole credit goes to you only. Be yourself and believe in yourself.

 

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on July 4, 2019
What will others think about it? From Dayanthiny

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You think about others is a good thing but If you think about others while you improving yourself. that is very bad. because first, you must believe and love yourself. Dilan And Praveen said correct point. Anyone can’t live your life and can’t solve your problem. So Don’t think about others.

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Exactly! your point is acceptable Dilan. This is your life Dayanthini. Don’t care about what others think. They didn’t go to live your life. This is your life.make your own decision what is good for you. If you fail or win whole credit goes to you only. Be yourself and believe in yourself.From PraveenSivanesan

I agree with your points others don’t live our life, Good. In my thought. If there any situation will impact the society we need to consider the other thing. And other’s opinion really helps our life improvement so we can’t avoid them, we must hear that. Do you agree?

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on July 4, 2019

I agree with your points others don’t live our life, Good. In my thought. If there any situation will impact the society we need to consider the other thing. And other’s opinion really helps our life improvement so we can’t avoid them, we must hear that. Do you agree?

From Dayanthiny


Yeah, I respect your thoughts. But the thing others opinion not gonna help you because they can share opinion only they don’t have any solution. For your decisions, you only responsible. And the society you said, they always criticize everything. If we change for the society we have to change each an everything for society. And we can’t live our life. Once we turn back our lives, we didn’t see us. We could only see the sacrification which we have done for the society. So be your own version and don’t care about others. it will down your self 🙂

 

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on July 4, 2019

But we can not say like this Praveen. because some good friends help us. So we can share anything with him/her. But My intention is, this is your life you have the capacity to solve your problem and take the decisions own not others ideas. Just take some hints from them, not the whole things.

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on July 4, 2019
But we can not say like this Praveen. because some good friends help us. So we can share anything with him/her. But My intention is, this is your life you have the capacity to solve your problem and take the decisions own not others ideas. Just take some hints from them, not the whole things.From Dilan
Your right, Dilan
I didn’t mean like that. There are some people really cares about us, they didn’t criticize us only they support and help us in a good way. We can trust them. They never gonna distract us in a wrong way. But other people mean, they never gonna give a chance to what kind of life we wanna live. They don’t know, what do we like or don’t. They push only their thoughts. They only focus on our defeat. Don’t care about that kind of people. And I don’t use to call “others“, Who really care and loves me. They are my people 🙂

 

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on July 4, 2019

Your right, Dilan
I didn’t mean like that. There are some people really cares about us, they didn’t criticize us only they support and help us in a good way. We can trust them. They never gonna distract us in a wrong way. But other people mean, they never gonna give a chance to what kind of life we wanna live. They don’t know, what do we like or don’t. They push only their thoughts. They only focus on our defeat. Don’t care about that kind of people. And I don’t use to call “others“, Who really care and loves me. They are my people 🙂

From PraveenSivanesan

Much appreciated your thought 🙂 

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on July 4, 2019

With pleasure 🙂

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1 on July 3, 2019

Most of the times I ask these question to improve my self.

What can I do?
Am I correct for this?
What are my values, and am I being true to others?
Do I worry too much about what others think?

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Am I correct for this?From Thushyanthini

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Which situation Did you face like that?

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I always ask these questions to improve my self.

  • What makes me tired or bored?
  • What is my value?
  • who am I?
  • where am I standing?
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on July 4, 2019
What is my value?From Thusha

When you asked this question to yourself, did you identify your value? If you find out any self-improvement tips, can you share your thought here?

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5 on July 3, 2019

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Actually, In my personal life, there are so many questions, but Mostly, I asked my self, who I’m and where I’m in? because of these are the key points of my success. there are so many hidden points in my inner mind but in this situation, I can’t tell all the points. but honestly, I would say above two questions.

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on July 4, 2019


Did you get the answer to your two questions?

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on July 4, 2019

Hey , you know one thing, these are not ending questions. In order to improve my career and personal growth, I’m asking these questions when I set new goals in my life.

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on July 4, 2019


I believe You will achieve your goal with these two types of questions. I wish you the best of luck for your future goals.

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on July 4, 2019

Thanks a lot . Happy to hear this from you, very kind of you 🙂

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on July 4, 2019
Hey , you know one thing, these are not ending questions. In order to improve my career and personal growth, I’m asking these questions when I set new goals in my life.From Nigetha

Nigetha, As you know every goal are different. So will you ask the same questions for all of your new goals? 

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4 on July 3, 2019

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I ask these things to improve myself.

Who am i?
How do I change my personality?
How do I improve myself everyday?

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on July 3, 2019
How do I improve myself everyday?From Kumuthini

Do you have any suggestions about this Kumuthiny?

Member
on July 3, 2019

Yes, the following points I’m using to improve my self every day.

  • I learning something new every day. whatever Like my dress code or style
  • Developing good habits in myself. Eg. Communication way.
  • Compete against people who are better than me. because then only I can achieve my goal destination.
  • I always challenge my self that I can do anything.
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Who am i?From Kumuthini

Did you find the answer to this your question?

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on July 4, 2019
Did you find the answer to this your question?From Kuberaga

When I asked myself this question, I was able to clearly identify who I am, and I am a woman so I have solved it when it comes to obstacles. so I have identify, “I am a bold girl“. if I be like this, I love able to love myself. 

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0 on July 3, 2019

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1. What are the things I need to improve my self?
2. How can I improve?
3. What are the struggles I could face?
4. Am I going in the right track?

These are the questions I ask myself.

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2 on July 4, 2019

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1. Why I’am Not Serious for Anything.
This is My Big Question to My Self.

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on July 4, 2019

That’s not a big deal .I’ve seen most of the people like you.I think you’re a jolly type so you don’t take serious anything.when you get matured you take responsibilities then you will find out the answer.

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on July 5, 2019

Yes,
But I need to Change My Attitude because My points are not valued in my family and Other Places.

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3 on July 4, 2019

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1. What is the reason I came to earth?
2. What have I accomplished?
3. What is my weakness? How to overcome this?
4. What I did today? If anything I did wrong how to correct it?
5. What should I do if I live tomorrow?

These are the questions I ask myself every day to improve myself.

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on July 4, 2019

Don’t think too much about tomorrow. It’s worthless, Work today for tomorrow, And just live the present situation. If you will live tomorrow that’s also your present.

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on July 5, 2019

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I’m not thinking too much about tomorrow. I mention there “What should I do if I live tomorrow?”. it means I prepare for tomorrow. Here I tell one thing for you “Best preparation is the half victory”

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on July 5, 2019
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I’m not thinking too much about tomorrow. I mention there “What should I do if I live tomorrow?”. it means I prepare for tomorrow. Here I tell one thing for you “Best preparation is the half victory”From Ahamed Suraif

I also meant that. Today’s work tomorrow’s result.

 

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0 on July 4, 2019

We can ask any questions by ourselves but we always want to ask one question.

How to do this?

because we can ask a question then find a solution or answer for that, then what happened we won’t do anything because we don’t know how to do that or implement that. so if anyone asks any questions but then they want to ask “how to do this” question.

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